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Mature Concepts:

Many of the most popular video games are based upon an environment where rule breaking, criminal acts and hurting humans is not only glorified, but rewarded. And gamers aren’t just watching these things, as in a movie. Video game players actually assume the 1st person role of the actor – purposefully and strategically accomplishing these harmful acts themselves. Drug use, prostitution and unprovoked attacks upon innocent people have been morphed into status elevating achievements. X-rated displays and R-rated words are embedded in a growing assortment of off-the-shelf games. Black market alterations, called “mods”, are available to turn seemingly inoffensive games into blood splattering displays. These things aren’t guaranteed to turn little Johnny into a sociopath, but they certainly warrant the attention of caring parents.
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What can you do?

Take the time to actually review the games that your child wants to play, before you purchase them. Common Sense Media is one popular website that offers parents a quick and credible breakdown on game content. If there is marginal content, at least make the investment of speaking with your child about the issues raised by the game.

Another suggestion provided by a parent on our MpoweredParent Forums, advised parents to sit down and play the game with their child, or watch their child play the game for at least twenty minutes. If the kid gets uncomfortable about the idea, there’s probably a good reason for it.

Don’t be bullied into compromising your values. If you don’t like the idea of your child shooting another human being in the head, even virtually, then don’t allow it in your home. Address the issue rationally. They may find a way of getting around you from time to time, but they’ll know how strongly you feel, and how important your family values are.